In addition to having to find ways to respond well to adversity, Martinez’ move away from Costa Rica and being basically alone with the exception of his brother also taught him a valuable lesson about himself.
“I realized after some time that I had Asperger’s…
My whole journey helped me a lot to learn how to adjust and live with that. I had to learn how to talk to other people because otherwise I would be by myself. When I first moved over here, I could have never imagined I would be sitting down for an interview in English, when I wasn’t even good at expressing myself in my own language. I had to learn how to develop and communicate in both languages and learn how to feel comfortable in those situations.”
Having a language barrier and knowing only one person in a foreign country, Martinez had no choice but to get outside his comfort zone and develop meaningful relationships with the people around him.
Today, however, Martinez is proud of both his ability to converse with people he doesn’t know and of the close bonds he’s formed with important people in his life, including his teammates.
“(The time alone in California) was really big not just for general communication, but for communications in my relationships,” Martinez said. “It helped my relationship with my girlfriend, my communication with my parents and being able to talk to my teammates better.”
“Communication with my teammates is obviously really important so it was really important for me to get better at that,” he added. “I wasn’t always great at it in high school, but I’ve just kept working at it and getting more comfortable. I think it’s helped me bond more with them off the court and then also play my role better on the court.”
For him, the ability to do both is a direct result of his time in the United States where he had to find a way by himself as a teenager.
“It was just kinda recently where I realized how much everything on my journey has helped me deal with that. My past experiences have changed my life and made it better.”