Fleur Knopert | Field Hockey | Raalte, Netherlands
1. The women in my life played a big role in my journey as a student-athlete. My mom, for example, is just as competitive as me. She used to be a high-level equestrian and knows what it’s like to have such a big passion for your sport. She’s always been supporting me when I wanted to take the next step in my field hockey journey, even when I decided that I wanted to play in the US for 4 years and she wouldn’t be able to see me for the majority of the year. We often FaceTime and celebrate the small and big wins, and she is always there for me whenever I have a hard time. She reminds me that I’m good enough to be here. She has always believed in me and is one of the biggest supporters in my life, which is something I really appreciate.
When I was a freshman at Ball State, there were two seniors: Libby and Kerri. Both inspired me a lot as well. Both of them were so strong and fit, held people accountable, were great leaders and worked incredibly hard. They always pushed themselves and others to do the same. One of them even trained for a half marathon on top of all the practices and games we had, and both of them did pull-ups like it was nothing. I thought that was the coolest thing ever, and I wanted to be just as strong and fit as they were. They took me under their wing and pushed me every single day in the weight room and when we had to get on the line to run 170s. Because of them, I became a better athlete physically and mentally, and I try to share my enthusiasm and push my teammates with lifting and running, which might not always be the fun part, so they can become the best athletes they can be, which is so rewarding in the end.
2. In The Netherlands, women’s sports have grown significantly in the last couple of years, especially when the women’s soccer team won the UEFA Women’s Euros in 2017 and became second in the FIFA World Cup in 2019. Overall, I think women’s sports in the Netherlands are treated pretty equally to men’s, which is something I love, except for the fact that men still get paid more, especially for soccer and field hockey.
In other countries, it’s definitely different, so I feel very fortunate to have this experience and to be able to play sports in general. In the hockey India league, the highest-paid male player received 90k USD, and the highest-paid female player ‘only’ received 36k USD, which is a huge difference, unfortunately. On the other side, I think the U.S. is doing a great job with Title IX, which was a great step for women’s sports in the U.S. I hope other countries will follow as well. I would love to see equal pay rates for professional athletes in the future. I would also love to see more media attention for women’s sports, especially back home. The men’s soccer teams are always broadcast, but it’s much harder to find a live women’s soccer game. And last but not least, we need more young girls! Sports are so fun and bring me so much in life. I hope everyone, both women and men, will be able to experience it.
3. Honestly, every single time we line up, I just look at my teammates and think, wow, we look pretty cool. We all have our own game-day hair, wear skirts, look pretty and are ready to destroy the other team. Girlhood is a real thing. Braiding each other's hair and getting ready together is so fun. You can look cute, be tough and be competitive. My headband might not look cute, but every single time I put it on, I just get into the zone and feel stronger. I’m proud to be a woman and love that we are able to show it when we play.
4. Dreams stay dreams unless you take action. Sometimes, things might seem scary, whether it is trying a new sport, doing tryouts for your high school team or trying to play in a different country. A little bit cliche, but just remember that you always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. For example, transferring was the scariest thing that I’ve ever done, but I’m so glad that I entered the transfer portal and ended up playing for Maryland so I can keep pushing myself both as a student and athlete. Believe in yourself, be creative, and where there is a will, there is a way. You might not always be motivated, and the road might not always be easy, but as long as you stay disciplined and be creative with the things you have, you can do anything. Playing here has brought me so much, and I am so happy and grateful to play here for Maryland! Dreams do come true.